Thursday, August 30, 2007
Steps to Being a Good Wife and Making a Contented Family
Being a good wife is not as difficult as it may seem. You can be the super-mom, loving wife, and all around perfect woman with just a few key ideas in your arsenal. Sure, you have to live with a husband, put up with the kids, and find a way to juggle sensuality and sensibility with out embarrassing yourself or your kids. But in the end, it all comes out in the wash.
1.Put God first. Every day should start with some quiet reflection time and some study time. If you will make Him and His word a priority, you will find that the rest of the day will manage to work itself out.
2.Put your family second. Its easy to get caught up in the things that we think are important and miss those things that truly are. Turn the TV off even in the middle of the show to talk with your kids or go out and take a walk. Turn off the computer screen and face your spouse when he needs to talk with you. Let the people around know that they are more important than anything else.
3.Make time for yourself. Scurrying around taking care of the family and the home and the neighbors means that not much else gets done. But you need to take time and pamper yourself. Do you like a good book? Take a few minutes each day to hide away with one. Even Jesus Christ got away from the crowds to rest and recharge.
4.Plan ahead. Make a menu for the next two weeks so you (and your family) will know what to expect from meal time. It will save you time not having to pour through the pantry only to find that you dont have the one ingredient you need to make that dish that was on your mind. Not only does a menu help with the cooking, but it will help you plan out a grocery list as well.
5.Just do it. I cant be the only one that has walked by the dryer KNOWING there were cloths in it just waiting to be folded. Many days I spend more time putting off the job than it would actually take if I just did it. Whats worse is that chores, like the dishes and the dirty cloths, find a way to multiply if they are left unattended. Before long the task is so daunting that it would be easier to just leave the mess and move to a new house. Instead of making the bad seem worse and eating time in the process, just do what needs to be done and get it over with.
6.No more excuses. Ive started my game plan over a hundred times at least if feels that way. Im not putting out the white flag. Instead, Im re-organizing, re-planning, and re-attacking. Eventually, Ill get it right. Until then, I wont fall back on the excuses Its never worked before No one ever helps If only my parents had taught me different and I will push through to victory one step at a time.
Being a good wife and keeping a contented family is not that difficult. Its just a matter of getting my priorities straight and getting going. By spending time with God, putting my family first, taking time for myself, planning ahead, doing what needs to be done, and not making excuses, then the battle is almost won.
Kathryn is a freelance writer who specializes in family issues, budgeting, and working from home. She is the founding member of the Peculiar Club, and writes frequently at that site about these topics.
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The Stylish And Comfortable Home Theater Furniture
The furniture for your home theater is something that is very important, something you cannot do without. A wide range of home theater furniture is available in the market. They are in various shapes and sizes. They come in different designs and styles. You must keep your budget in mind while you are shopping for home theater furniture. You can get good furniture even when you have a limited budget. Of course the choices are more when the budget is high. Home theater furniture consists of various items like home theater seating, television stands, home theater tables, DVD storage racks and many more. There's something called specialty furniture also which includes pillows, bar tables etc.
The home theater furniture is usually made up of different types of wood like cheery and maple. Some are also made from oak. You can go for cabinets if you have a big budget. These cabinets are ideally suited for flat screen televisions. These cabinets come with several advantages. They come with doors which can be closed when the television is not in use. This keeps the screen safe and sound. However you don't need to worry in case you have a limited budget. You can get yourself television stands instead of the cabinets. They don't have doors but are nonetheless they are good. They have some space for storage right at the bottom. Mounting of cabinets can also be done. This will make the viewing all the more pleasurable.
Audio equipments are an important part of the home theater system so you need some place to store them. Audio cabinets form a part of the home theater furniture. You can store all the audio pieces here.
DVD's and CD's too need storage. Various DVD and CD racks are available in the market. They come in various sizes and shapes. You can choose one according to the size of your room. If you have a small collection of DVD's, you can buy a small rack. A huge collection will obviously need a bigger rack for storage. These storage units should match the style of your room, so choose accordingly.
Comfort comes first!
Comfortable seating is the most important thing about your home theater furniture. This is because there's no use in buying expensive furniture if it is not comfortable. You and your family will sit on this for hours while watching movies, so the furniture must be comfortable. One of the most popular comfortable seating options is the plush recliners. They are ideal for home theaters. They usually have cup holders so you can sip your favorite coffee while watching your favorite movie. You can buy small side tables in case your recliner doesn't have cup holder. These tables may have a wooden top or a glass top. People usually prefer the glass top because it has the advantage of setting up drinks.
Bar furniture is also important. You can go for it if your budget is not too limited. Bar furniture consists of tables, bar stools and several other bar accessories. You can have a good collection of drinks and snacks in your bar. This will make movie viewing all the more fun.
Home Theaters have become common and their popularity will grow even further in the coming years. The home theater furniture is thus very important because you can't enjoy the movie if you don't have a comfortable seating. Various options are available in the market; you just need to find the perfect one for your home theater. Keep your budget in mind and this shouldn't be too difficult. Also, never compromise on comfort.
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